They marry young women that will give them healthy children and will still be alive to raise them.Men pursue both long-term and short-term mating strategies: Men are also prone to the novelty effect: they desire a woman less after they had sex with her. Men are constantly ready to have sex because they don’t have many occasions to do it. Men also get aroused by psychological cues, such as: They are biologically designed to objectify women’s bodies. The most common male desire cues are women’s age, breasts, butts, waist-to-hip ratios, and feet. We cannot choose who and what we are attracted to. Males and females across the animal kingdom have broadly overlapping desire patterns. What we desire isn’t determined by society, but by biology. Short Summary of A Billion Wicked Thoughts Since this book is about a topic I am highly interested in, I wrote an analysis at the end as well as a short text talking about Jordan Peterson’s interpretation of the book. I wanted to give it a 10, but these are just too many problems. The authors just ask questions and look for answers, without worrying about what the answers mean (I had to count on Jordan Peterson for that but even he made a bunch of mistakes). This makes it difficult to follow and remember.Īs a result (and this is the second point), the book repeats itself too much.įourth, it asks questions it doesn’t answer directly or none at all because science hasn’t yet uncovered the answer (exactly like Brand Seduction).įinally, there is a complete lack of interpretation of the findings.
Instead of writing clear sections about men then about women, etc, the authors spread a bit of information over each chapter. The chapters are all over the place and the information (the what about the whom) is not categorized, but all mixed up. However…the manuscript isn’t perfect either, sadly.įirst, it’s not well written. Ogas and Gaddam have done excellent work and I am surprised that the book isn’t more often cited in discussions about men-women relationships. It shines the light on what women want from men, what they focus on when looking for a partner, and what they expect out of their relationships.Īnyone wondering about female sexuality won’t have many unanswered questions left after reading it. This book is one of the most complete books ever written on female psychology. The most important highlight from the book is that men’s and women’s sexuality is fundamentally different due to their own respective purposes. The book talks about the sexual fantasies that men and women consume online and attempts to explain them with evolutionary psychology. What A Billion Wicked Thoughts Talks AboutĪ Billion Wicked Thoughts is a book written by Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam. Women require to be both physically and emotionally excited to have sex.Women’s physical and emotional arousal work independently from one another.It also explains why women love erotic novels (emphasis on the physical and psychological) and why men don’t like them (not enough emphasis on the physical).This explains why men like to watch porn (emphasis on the physical) and why women don’t like it (absence of psychological cues).They get aroused by physical and emotional clues. Straight women get turned on by tall, muscled men with deep voices and square jaws that are also at the top of the social hierarchy, dominant, competent, and hopelessly in love with them.Straight men get turned on by young women with attractive breasts, butts, and waist-to-hip ratios -> men are aroused by physical cues.
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